The Wife-ing Post

The Wife-ing Post

Wife-ing is hard. I mean, there’s no sense making bones about it: the very concept of wife-ing is already hard. But it’s especially, ESPECIALLY hard for someone like me: an extremely independent, commitment-avoidant, free-spirited neurodivergent who just...
We Need More Fucking Love

We Need More Fucking Love

We need more fucking love. Not romantic love, not “this is my boyfriend” love, not “we are meant to be together forever” love. In fact, we probably have too much of that. We’re sold this lie (among the many other lies we are sold) that the ideal design for life is...

The 10 Texts That Keep Romance Alive

The 10 Texts That Keep Romance Alive Romance is fucking real ya’ll.   It turns out I just didn’t know it until I married the best man on the planet.   My husband and I are pukey: I understand this as an objective fact. I’m also okay with it. At any given...