Marriage & Relationships

To Love Is An Act Of Rebellion

To love is an act of rebellion. In this world of us, them, borders, walls, autonomy, chains, openness, lies, the act of loving is an act in defiance of all we are conditioned to do and be. To love does not mean just to love romantically. To love means to love those...

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The End Of Justification

Justification, to self or to others, is bullshit. Let me start over. Lately, inconsistency and I have been pretty good friends. Well, Internet inconsistency anyway. The act of blogging, or Youtubing, or social media-ing....these things haven't come consistently or...

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Here’s The Thing About Boundaries…

Very rarely is it acceptable to be an outright asshole. Most people don't take super kindly to other people being rude or obnoxious or straight-up mean, with poor intentions. It's normally clear how to react in those situations: shut it down. That said, most people -...

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A (True) Story About A Traveler Who Hates Commitment

Once upon a time, there was a girl. We'll call her Schmanjali. (*Editor's note: this name and story are completely fictionalized so any resemblance to any person living or dead is purely coincidental.) (*Editor's second note: I'm lying.) Schmanjali was a really fun...

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